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Posted by Rich Fettke.
"The professional athlete’s love of an adrenaline spike should almost never be linked to compulsive behavior. Quite the opposite is true. It’s more appropriate to say that taking a risk and succeeding because of their wits and skill feels orgasmic." -Maryann Karinch, Lessons from the Edge
When you are afraid, your body responds with its own form of rocket fuel: adrenaline.
Adrenaline is one of the natural drugs your body releases when you push limits or you are confronted with a challenge. Adrenaline flows through your body, giving you extra awareness, mental clarity and the ability to respond quickly to different situations. Colors are sharper, sounds are clearer. You are more conscious of odors and your body feels energized.
Whether you are jumping out of a plane or setting up a sales presentation with your hottest prospect, if the activity scares you, adrenaline will provide you with the strength you need to succeed. By recognizing how you feel when adrenaline is coursing though your veins, you will become much more skilled at using this ally to your advantage because you are employing it to accomplish a goal.
At the same time you should be aware that adrenaline also kicks in when you are under all kinds of stress, everything from getting caught in traffic to dealing with difficult people. In these types of everyday situations, adrenaline can burn you out because your body doesn’t get a chance to rest and recuperate.
I used to get tense from adrenaline in all kinds of circumstances and now, because I’ve gotten used to the feeling through extreme sports, I can say, "Ah, I know this feeling. It’s adrenaline. I need to be aware of why I’m feeling it. Am I facing a real risk or do I just need to reduce the number of stressful events that I tolerate in my life? Maybe I need to leave a little earlier to avoid traffic or perhaps I should discuss what’s bothering me with a friend."
By learning what adrenaline feels like, you can use it instead of it using you.
UNDERSTAND HOW FEAR WORKS
Answer the following questions to get a better understanding of how you handle fear.
1. What is the scariest thing you’ve ever done?
2. Why did you do it?
3. What was your fear telling you?
4. What were you focusing on?
5. What could you have focused on to reduce your fear?
6. What did you learn about yourself and your fears?
Posted by Rich Fettke.
"The first step to doing something is saying you’ll do it — preferably to someone else. The next step is thinking you’ll do it, then believing, then taking the action." -Hans Florine, Author of Speed Climbing and world champion rock climber
Think of the last time you took on a good, healthy challenge in your life. Maybe it was a physical challenge – like a long hike or run – where you really had to dig deep in order to stick with it. Maybe it was an emotional challenge – like asking someone out for a date or asking a business prospect for the big sale. Maybe it was a challenge where you left a job, moved across the country, or enrolled in school.
How did you feel when you were going for it? How do you feel now when you think back on that challenge?
My clients have shown me, time and time again, that when we have a compelling goal that challenges us to give our best it brings an incredible feeling of exhilaration and passion to our lives.
Life’s greatest rewards are often found when we reach just a little higher. When we are growing, that’s when we are really living. As I write this I am looking at where my life has become habitual rather than experiential. I am asking myself the question "Where have I slipped into a comfort zone and what is my next exciting challenge?"
What about you? What is the next big challenge for you and when will you go for it? As you take on your challenge you will be rewarded with more ambition and drive. And on the other side of your challenge will be a fantastic feeling of exhilaration and accomplishment. Isn’t that worth taking the leap?
What is the next big challenge you’ve been thinking about taking on? Give it some thought. Get clear, take action and then enjoy the high.
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